Anyone who is a returning member of our community knows that Halloween is a special time at Oak Knoll. For all of our new students and faculty – just wait! From the sweetness and joy of the Lower School parade to the creativity and hilarity of the Upper School seniors’ costume reveal, it is another example of our unique traditions and community spirit.
For some, unfortunately, Halloween can also be a time of hurt and disappointment, when they see their culture appropriated* or reduced to a costume. We know that this is not what any member of our community would want, and so we are sharing some resources that shed light on some costumes that are sold or created nationwide that are not appropriate. This is by no means meant to be an exhaustive list, so if you are questioning if a costume not on this list is appropriate, please feel free to reach out.
If you are unsure about a costume, a quick Google search can often shed light, or I am happy to answer any questions. As is true with most things in life, a good guiding rule is, “When in doubt, leave it out.” Just as I do every year, I am looking forward to seeing the creativity, joy, and spirit of our students as we celebrate Halloween this week!
*Definition of cultural appropriation from Oxford Languages: the unacknowledged or inappropriate adoption of the customs, practices, ideas, etc. of one people or society by members of another and typically more dominant people or society. Read more.
Jennifer Wilson is the Associate Director of College Counseling and Coordinator of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Justice and Oak Knoll School of the Holy Child in Summit, New Jersey.